[Vb.Net]
Private Sub flyGrid_NodeCellChange(ByVal sender As Object, ByVal node As NineRays.Windows.Forms.Data.NodeBase, ByVal index As Integer, ByVal value As Object) Handles flyGrid.NodeCellChange
  If (index = 0) Then     
    Dim idx As Integer = m_QueryName.GetValueList(dgQueries.Selected).IndexOf(m_QueryName.GetValueList(dgQueries.Selected), m_QueryName.GetValue(dgQueries.Selected)) 
    If (idx > 0) Then
      'node(3) = m_QueryId.GetValueList(node).GetValue(idx)
      ' or
      dgQueries.Rows.Items(node.Index())(3) = m_QueryId.GetValueList(node).GetValue(idx) 
    End If
  End If
End Sub